Next time, put a rule that saying: "We have the right to destroy your home if you be offline for a month(or 2 weeks) unless you ask us not to remove your house"
Yea, I learned a lot of lessons after this first attempt at a town.
It kind of grew on it's own which was cool but comes with some minor issues too. Oh well, it was fun to do. It's not the end of the world even if I just leave them there. With the new member world coming, my guess is most new people will go there anyway.
Thanks for the feedback and ideas.