Hello,
Not entirely sure if you're Cory_s, droy09 or the same person, but I'll address this primarily toward droy09...
It doesn't matter how many blocks Droy09 has griefed compared to another player. Droy09 has been banned 6 times and the last being quite substantial at 271 blocks.
6 bans takes some doing and shows us that Droy09 has absolutely no intention of following the Opticraft rules.
If you are in fact Cory_s - You're ban time has already passed and you are no longer restricted and are able to "play on the best server" with your friends;
http://www.opticraft.net/index.php/page,BanLookup.html?username=CORY_S